Spiritually, getting intimate with someone is the most sacred act possible. Your souls are intertwined, you WILL create an energetic connection between you and that person. However, if this person has any negative energies attached to them, any curses, any blockages, they can be transferred to YOU & YOUR body. If this person is not meant for you, YOUR BODY WILL SHOW YOU AND SPEAK TO YOU. Your mind may lie to you but your body NEVER will - so please, listen to it and trust it. Men can even harvest the energy of a woman. You‘ll notice this by observing how you lose your spark, your energy and your motivation while he is getting more and more successful, richer and more beautiful. This is happening when he is draining YOUR energy and you are not even aware of that. And this is why a lot of times, you‘ll have a big glow up after breaking up with someone while they are getting worse. Because you finally called your energy back to you and claimed it for YOURSELF. Be very cautious about who you allow into your energetic space and into your body.
If you suddenly forget what you wanted to say, chances are high that your spirit guides/god/the universe protects you from revealing certain information this to this specific individual, to keep you from oversharing something that could or would be used AGAINST you later.
People who hate you will see your potential before you do. And to make sure that you never use it, they try to drag you down, try to destroy your spirit, try to sabotage you. The truth is, they are unconsciously doing you a favor. They are stepping away from their own life mission, become obsessively devoted to yours and send you their energy. And any kind of energy can be transmuted into pure energy for us to use - that’s the secret of alchemizing it. So instead of trying to stop them or trying to speak reason or logic into them or yet alone to react to them, let them direct their limited energy to you and use it as a fuel for yourself.
Most times, shortly after we manifested something, everything around us seems to break down. Relationships end, we lose friends, a job, an opportunity. This is where most people get anxious and think they did something wrong - you DID NOT. When manifesting something new, the universe has to remove ANYTHING that is blocking you from where you want to end up. This includes people that were no longer for your highest good, places that drained you and everything that was no longer serving you. Trust the process, destruction is the first step of creation.
The truth is, other people often sense the strength of our energy and the power of our potential long before we actually consciously realize it. And people who don‘t have the best intentions towards you will do everything they can to keep you small, to „humble“ you, to force you to „keep thinking realistic“ to stop you being „delusional“. Because they know exactly, once you unlock your full potential, it will trigger their own unhealed wounds they are not ready to face. So by trying to avoid your growth and keeping you small, inflicting insecurities and pain into you, they can actually avoid growing for themselves, too. Because there is nothing and no one around them reminding them of how stagnant they feel.
If you learn how to alchemize and transform energy, there is no difference between positive or negative energy that is being directed your way. EVERY source of energy can be transformed into potential energy for you to use. This is why I recommend to never just „send the energy back to the sender“ - you’re basically playing ping pong and this person ends up sending it right back to you. Instead, affirm to yourself that everything sent your way will be alchemized into pure energy to boost your visions, dreams & manifestations.
If you are a natural giver, you will automatically attract a lot of people who will take - also those, who take without ever giving anything in return. So called „energy vampires“. In order for you to not create one-sided energetic connections to people, it’s important to create strong energetic boundaries. Before going to sleep, close your eyes and say out loud or in your mind: „I call my energy back to me from any person, place or situation. My energy is mine and it is effortlessly returning back to me now. I cut any energetic ties that are not in alignment with my highest good.“ After waking up, Visualize how a golden light is coming out of your solar plexus, forming a big golden circle around your body. This will protect you aura for each day.