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NEW PODCAST IS OUT! 🚨 In this new episode, we talk about signs of incompatibility, how to have better communication in arguments, and deciding what really matters when pursuing a long-term relationship.  Tap the link in my bio or head to your favorite podcast platform to tune in now!

The foundation of any meaningful relationship is simple: being seen, accepted, and wanted for who you truly are. If someone doesn’t see you, doesn’t accept you, or doesn’t want what they see, then the relationship is missing its most beautiful and essential part. Don’t settle for anything less than someone who chooses you fully. That’s the standard you deserve. Thank you, @Jay Shetty, for having me on your podcast, I always love our conversations. ❤️

If you’ve ever been ghosted, you know how brutal it feels. It’s like the floor suddenly dropped out from under you. But here’s the truth: Ghosting isn’t about you—it’s usually about the other person’s immaturity or inability to have a hard conversation.  In my brand-new video, I explain why people ghost in modern dating, and show you how to stop getting stuck on people who flake and disappear, so you focus on people who truly value you. Life is too short to waste on people who don’t show up. Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching.

Have you ever struggled to let go of an ex? Tell me your experience in the comments 👇🏻

NEW PODCAST EPISODE IS OUT! Do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners? Are you dating someone who pulls away just when things get close? Have you ever wondered if the person you’re dating is avoidant or simply not that interested? In this episode, @Stephen Hussey, Audrey, and I dive deep into the topic of how to handle avoidant attachment, the signs to look for early on, and what you can do if you’re dating someone with avoidant behavior. Tap the link in my bio or head to your favorite podcast platform to listen!

Do you agree? Tell me in the comments. 👇 Thank you, @Jay Shetty for having me on your podcast.

Why do we chase the wrong people and even push away the relationships we say we want? In this week’s video, I speak with entrepreneur and bestselling author @lewishowes, and we unpack the surprising ways we can sabotage love without even realizing it.   From being attracted to what feels exciting but unavailable to letting old wounds dictate our instincts, we explore why the “good ones” can feel less appealing, and how we can retrain our brains. If you’ve ever wondered why you’re drawn to the wrong people or why healthy love feels strange, this conversation is going to hit home. Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching!

Letting go of a relationship that no longer serves us is one of the hardest things we’ll ever do. Because it’s not just the person we’re letting go of—it’s the memories, the time we invested, and the hopes and dreams we tied to that relationship. But here’s the question: Would you rather face the regret of staying in an unhappy relationship for years, or muster the courage it takes to leave now and create space for something better? Thank you, @AB | أنس بوخش for having me on your podcast, @#ABtalks. 💙

Love that looks good on the outside but leaves you feeling alone on the inside isn’t love worth keeping. At some point, protecting your peace has to matter more than holding on to a relationship that doesn’t meet your needs. If you’ve ever felt like you’re always torn between chasing someone exciting or someone who brings you peace, I just released a video with @Jay Shetty that I hope will help you create a love life that actually works for you. Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching!

Have you ever ignored this red flag in early dating? Tell me in the comments. If you’re ready to build the confidence to stop ignoring those signs, trust your instincts, and walk away from the wrong people faster, my 30-Day Confidence Challenge is exactly what you need. Starting July 15th, we’ll kick off with a live session where I’ll guide you through 5 powerful missions designed to strengthen your confidence in every area of life and show up as the best version of yourself—not just in dating, but in every relationship and opportunity you pursue. If you’re ready to take control of your confidence and start making decisions that align with your worth, comment the word CHALLENGE below, and I’ll send you the link to join us for this free challenge.

If you’ve ever found yourself obsessing over someone who isn’t reciprocating, you’ll know how damaging it can be—not just to your self-esteem, but to your entire sense of peace. You spend hours, days, even months caught up in fantasies about what could be, often without even knowing if they feel the same way. This is what’s known as limerence—a fixation that thrives on hope and uncertainty. The good news? You don’t have to stay stuck in this cycle, and this video shows you how you can break free and reclaim your energy for someone who truly deserves it. P.S. If you want to watch the full video, tap the link in my bio or head over to my YouTube channel.

SAVE this video for the next time you find yourself doubting your worth ❤️ When we doubt our worth, it’s easy to fall into patterns of overcompensating, settling for less, or staying silent when we should speak up. But here’s the truth: your worth isn’t determined by someone else’s validation or approval—it’s something you carry within you, and the more you nurture it, the more unshakable it becomes. That’s exactly why I created the 30-Day Confidence Challenge. Starting July 15th, we’ll embark on a transformative journey together to build the kind of confidence that doesn’t waver in the face of rejection, setbacks, or self-doubt. Over the course of 30 days, I’ll guide you through 5 powerful missions designed to strengthen your self-belief and help you show up as the most authentic, empowered version of yourself. The best part is, you won’t be doing it alone. You’ll be part of a global community of people all working toward the same goal—cheering each other on, sharing wins, and holding each other accountable. There’s something incredibly powerful about knowing you’re not alone in this journey, and that collective energy can be a game-changer. Comment LIVE below to join the challenge for free, and let’s take this journey together. 🚀

Brand-new podcast episode is OUT! 🚨 In this episode, Audrey, @Stephen Hussey, and I explore how to handle feeling behind in love, and dating confidently and calmly even when it feels like time is running out. Learn how to avoid panic-driven decisions, especially when the stakes feel high—whether it’s starting a family, feeling like the only single person in your friend group, or navigating others’ expectations.   This episode will give you the tools to find love and ease the pressure you might be feeling.

Being a good communicator is powerful. But being someone who takes initiative without being asked? That’s rare — and that’s what keeps relationships strong. 🎧 This moment is from the latest episode of my podcast where we break down the 4 must-haves for real commitment — and how to know if someone is truly right for you. Tap the link in my bio or listen wherever you get your podcasts to dive in!

Have you ever caught yourself obsessing over someone without even knowing if they feel the same way about you? This is often a sign of limerance—the unhealthy fixation on someone who doesn’t return your feelings. In my brand-new video, I’ll show you how to recognize the signs of limerence, why it thrives on hope and uncertainty, and what you can do to break free and get your power back. If you’ve ever felt trapped in this emotional loop, this is your way out! Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching.

Remember: When someone “won’t let you go,” it’s up to you to find the strength to let THEM go—especially if you know they’ll never give you what you truly need. Holding on only delays the life and love you deserve.

In every relationship, difficult conversations are inevitable. They’re the moments where clarity is created, boundaries are set, and deeper connections are built. Yet for many of us, the fear of rejection, saying the wrong thing, or being misunderstood can make these conversations feel impossible to approach. But here’s the truth: Avoiding them doesn’t protect us—it only prolongs the discomfort and keeps us stuck in patterns that don’t serve us. If you’ve ever struggled to express your needs, set boundaries, or navigate tough conversations in your relationships, I want to invite you to watch the replay of the 30-Day Confidence Challenge kickoff call that happened yesterday. This Challenge is about more than just learning how to communicate hard things—it’s about stepping into your power, owning your worth, and showing up as the most confident version of yourself in every area of your life. If you’re ready to stop shying away from the conversations that matter, and start creating the relationships you deserve, go to MHReplay.com to watch the kickoff call and sign up for free. Let’s make this the moment you find your voice and use it to transform your life. 🚀 Ps: thank you @Chris Williamson for this conversation on the Modern Wisdom Podcast.

One of the biggest mistakes in dating is focusing on how much you like someone instead of how they make you feel. Do they make you feel valued, secure, and seen? Or do they leave you feeling anxious and unseen? Shift your focus—your happiness depends on it. Thank you @AB | أنس بوخش for the beautiful conversation. Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com to watch the full video. #ABtalks

What's one thing that in your last relationship made you miserable? Tell me in the comments 👇 P.S. In my brand-new video with @Chris Williamson on his Modern Wisdom podcast, we explore the patterns that keep us stuck—whether it’s chasing unavailable partners, mistaking chaos for passion, or repeating cycles that leave us unfulfilled. We also talk about why these behaviors feel so familiar and how they’re often rooted in our past experiences rather than our actual desires. But here’s the good news: Breaking free is possible. And in this video, you’ll learn how to rewire your instincts and create a new reality where peace and connection replace anxiety and uncertainty.  Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching!

Have you ever found yourself chasing the wrong qualities in a partner? Share your experience in the comments - I’d love to hear your thoughts!